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24/10/08 08:22
You’ve documented your goal: To
develop a community of practice for Christian school
curriculum coordinators.
You did a careful study of the current situation, considered options for moving forward, and documented your goal. That’s good. Now you’re ready to start. That’s right—you’re ready to start. Remember, success is not developing a goal for curriculum coordinators. Success is having a functioning community of practice.
Now the real work begins. Now you need to achieve your documented goal. Now you need to get Christian school curriculum coordinators involved in the community of practice. Given all the others things you have going on, achieving your goal is going to be a challenge.
Tip: Be sure to get the support, encouragement, and accountability you need to achieve your documented goal. Discipline yourself to get these on a weekly basis, for example, by getting a coach.
Work smart. Get support, encouragement, and accountability. Today.
You did a careful study of the current situation, considered options for moving forward, and documented your goal. That’s good. Now you’re ready to start. That’s right—you’re ready to start. Remember, success is not developing a goal for curriculum coordinators. Success is having a functioning community of practice.
Now the real work begins. Now you need to achieve your documented goal. Now you need to get Christian school curriculum coordinators involved in the community of practice. Given all the others things you have going on, achieving your goal is going to be a challenge.
Tip: Be sure to get the support, encouragement, and accountability you need to achieve your documented goal. Discipline yourself to get these on a weekly basis, for example, by getting a coach.
Work smart. Get support, encouragement, and accountability. Today.
It’s self-management, not time management
07/03/07 11:45
I don’t try to manage certain
things. I don’t try to manage gravity. I
don’t try to manage the revolution of the planets
around the sun or the rotation of the earth on its
axis. And I don’t try to manage sunrise or sunset.
Actually, I am utterly incapable of managing any of these. The good news is that God, who does manage these, doesn’t ask me to.
I don’t try to manage the entirety of God’s creation, and I’ve stopped trying to manage a certain part of God’s creation. Why? Because my efforts have been about as effective as any attempt I would make to manage gravity. In other words, useless. Completely useless.
No matter what I do, I can’t change the amount I receive. I set and work at goals to change the amount, but I get exactly the same amount. And to make matters worse, I can’t even affect the rate at which I receive it. I set and work at goals to change the rate, and I get it at exactly the same rate.
What have I stopped trying to manage? Time. Why? First, I’m a time-bound being. I’m trapped in time, and there is no escape. Second, whether I like it or not, I receive the same amount of time each day. And third, no matter what I do, I receive time at the same rate: 60 seconds per minute, 60 minutes per hour, 24 hours per day. I can’t make a day 40 hours long. Can you? I can’t even add 1 second to a day. Can you?
Simply put, I am completely unable to manage time. My efforts to manage time are as effective as any attempt I would make to manage the revolution of the planets around the sun or the earth’s rotation on its axis. Let me be frank: your efforts to manage time are as effective as any attempt you would make to manage sunset. When’s the last time you set a goal to change the time of sunset and it worked, even to an infinitesimal degree?
However, the good news is that God manages time. And the good news is that what God calls us to do is to manage ourselves within the time he gives us. So, it’s how you manage yourself within time, not how you manage time. In other words, focus on yourself (which you can affect), not on time (which you can’t affect).
Practical implications?
Actually, I am utterly incapable of managing any of these. The good news is that God, who does manage these, doesn’t ask me to.
I don’t try to manage the entirety of God’s creation, and I’ve stopped trying to manage a certain part of God’s creation. Why? Because my efforts have been about as effective as any attempt I would make to manage gravity. In other words, useless. Completely useless.
No matter what I do, I can’t change the amount I receive. I set and work at goals to change the amount, but I get exactly the same amount. And to make matters worse, I can’t even affect the rate at which I receive it. I set and work at goals to change the rate, and I get it at exactly the same rate.
What have I stopped trying to manage? Time. Why? First, I’m a time-bound being. I’m trapped in time, and there is no escape. Second, whether I like it or not, I receive the same amount of time each day. And third, no matter what I do, I receive time at the same rate: 60 seconds per minute, 60 minutes per hour, 24 hours per day. I can’t make a day 40 hours long. Can you? I can’t even add 1 second to a day. Can you?
Simply put, I am completely unable to manage time. My efforts to manage time are as effective as any attempt I would make to manage the revolution of the planets around the sun or the earth’s rotation on its axis. Let me be frank: your efforts to manage time are as effective as any attempt you would make to manage sunset. When’s the last time you set a goal to change the time of sunset and it worked, even to an infinitesimal degree?
However, the good news is that God manages time. And the good news is that what God calls us to do is to manage ourselves within the time he gives us. So, it’s how you manage yourself within time, not how you manage time. In other words, focus on yourself (which you can affect), not on time (which you can’t affect).
Practical implications?
- Stop asking “How can I get more time?” and “How
can I use my time effectively?” Start asking “How
can I manage myself effectively within the time God
gives me?”
- Stop saying things like “I need 30-hour days”
and “I need 10-day weeks.” Start realizing that
when you say things like that, you’re commenting on
how effectively you manage yourself and/or your
level of trust that God gives you what you need.
- Stop trying to manage time. Start focusing on managing yourself.
- Do right
things, then do things
right. Make sure you are working on the
truly important before you spend time
fine-tuning what you are working on. This is a
challenge. Why? Because it is easier, for
example, to edit than it is to develop high
quality content. Discipline
yourself do right things, then do things
right.
-
Focus. On your
God-given mission. This means saying “no” to
certain requests, and saying “no” takes discipline.
- Think
big. Expand your
vision. Play a bigger game. Regularly ask
yourself questions like “What 3 dreams do I want
to realize?” and “What 3 things could I do in
the next 30 days that would make a real
difference?”
- Define your
goals.
Consistently make your goals SMART:
specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and
timebound. Making
your goals SMART takes discipline, but doing
so helps you clarify what you want to achieve.
And knowing what you want to achieve helps you
make better decisions about what to do next.
-
Know the score. Know
where you are in terms of achieving your goals.
Consistently track your progress. This takes
discipline, but doing so will help you make
effective decisions about what to do next.
- Schedule
your big priorities first, your
smaller priorities next, and so forth. Don’t
schedule renewing the newspaper, for example,
before you schedule your key ministry goals.
Discipline yourself to do this. Doing this will
help you stay focused on your big priorities.
- Plan backward. Plan like you
would for a dinner party. Picture your house
cleaned, your table set, and your meal prepared.
Then figure out what you need to do to get your
house cleaned, your table ready, and your meal
prepared. In other words, picture the goal
accomplished, and then plan backward. Say to
yourself, “Just before I achieve my goal, I need to
____. And just before I do that, I need to ____.
And just before I do that, I need to ____....”
Planning backward takes discipline, but it results
in a streamlined plan of action.
- Get
organized.
Schedule time each week to review your goals,
empty your inbox, and plan out the coming week.
Discipline yourself to do this for a minimum of
30 minutes each week.
- Get
resources.
Discipline yourself to secure the resources you
need to achieve your goals before you start
working on your goals.
- Get support, encouragement, and accountability. Discipline yourself to get these on a weekly basis, for example, by getting a coach.
- Choose 1 of the 10 items mentioned above.
Design a SMART action plan that will help you
increase your self-management: By ____________
(date), I will _______________________________.
- Make a commitment to achieve this action plan,
and tell someone about your commitment.
- Achieve your action plan.
Want to increase your productivity? Stop working!
04/10/06 11:44
That’s right. To increase your productivity,
stop working:
Stop for a minimum 30 minutes each week. And do what? Reflect. Why? Well, reflection is like…
(1) During your 30 minutes, you can pray. Ask God what He wants you to do, how He wants you to do it, and by when. (Remember, it’s God’s work. He has the master plan. Your task is to join God in what He’s already doing.) After you ask, listen. Quietly. For God to speak.
(2) During your 30 minutes, you can consider 5 questions:
(4) During your 30 minutes, you can get coaching. Your coach can help you:
You: But you don’t know how busy I am. You don’t know what my reality is like.
Me: The real reality is that you can’t afford not to stop and reflect. If you don’t stop and reflect, you increase the likelihood that:
What do I do? I reflect on a daily and weekly basis. Each day, I reflect as I pray about God’s work. I ask God for guidance. Then I go for about a 15-minute walk. During my walk, I listen for God’s voice. I listen for God to tell me whom He wants me to talk with, what he wants me to write about, and what projects He wants me keep doing, start doing, or stop doing.
In addition to reflecting daily, I reflect weekly for up to 2 hours. I use up to 75 minutes to process ideas, determine progress toward key goals, and identify and schedule tasks for the coming week. I use 30 minutes to meet with my coach. I use up to 15 minutes to review my schedule of tasks in light of my coaching session.
What happens during my coaching session? My coach asks me crucial questions like:
Imagine if you and everyone on your church staff, tentmaking staff, mission staff, or school staff spent 30 minutes each week in quiet, focused reflection. How would this impact the achievement your mission?
Work smart. Stop working and start reflecting for a minimum of 30 minutes each week. Increase your productivity. Start today.
- You have 167 unanswered emails in your inbox?
Stop answering email.
- You’re planning 3 major projects? Stop planning
projects.
- You’re planning meetings with your team, your
staff, and your clients? Stop planning meetings.
- You have 34 urgent tasks? Stop working on
urgent tasks.
- You have 25 more reports to assess? Stop assessing reports.
Stop for a minimum 30 minutes each week. And do what? Reflect. Why? Well, reflection is like…
- Putting air in your bike tires so you can ride
efficiently. (How efficiently can you ride on tires
that don’t have enough air in them?)
- Changing the oil in your car so the engine will
run well. (How well will your engine run if you
don’t change the oil?)
- Using a filter when making coffee. Using a
filter is an extra step, but using a filter means
good coffee with no grounds in it. (Do you like
drinking coffee that has grounds in it? I don’t.)
- Taking a hot shower after a tough day. Afterward, you feel refreshed. (If you don’t wind down after a tough day, what happens to you?)
(1) During your 30 minutes, you can pray. Ask God what He wants you to do, how He wants you to do it, and by when. (Remember, it’s God’s work. He has the master plan. Your task is to join God in what He’s already doing.) After you ask, listen. Quietly. For God to speak.
(2) During your 30 minutes, you can consider 5 questions:
- What’s the mission?
- What’s the definition of mission achievement?
- What’s my role in contributing to mission
achievement?
- What did I accomplish this week?
- What do I need to keep doing? Start doing? Stop doing?
- Instead of responding to your 167 unanswered
emails, define your communication system and the
role email plays in it.
- Instead of planning projects and meetings,
check your goals. Define them more clearly. Then,
decide which projects and meetings are pivotal.
Plan these. Only these.
- Instead of completing your 34 urgent tasks,
assess your time allocation for good things (urgent
tasks) and best things (non-urgent tasks). Build in
time for non-urgent tasks. Even if it means not
getting some of the urgent tasks done.
- Instead of assessing your 25 reports, assess your goals. Then determine your system for assigning reports and your criteria for assessing reports.
(4) During your 30 minutes, you can get coaching. Your coach can help you:
- Think bigger and more clearly.
- Think outside the box.
- Get more focused and stay focused.
- Get organized.
- Get the support, encouragement, and accountability you need to reach your goals.
You: But you don’t know how busy I am. You don’t know what my reality is like.
Me: The real reality is that you can’t afford not to stop and reflect. If you don’t stop and reflect, you increase the likelihood that:
- You’ll feel that it’s your work and it’s God’s
privilege to join you. In reality, God is already
at work, and it’s your privilege to join Him.
Remember, God can do it without you.
- You’ll overestimate what you can accomplish in
1 year, while underestimating what you can
accomplish in 2 years. This means you will strive
to get 2 years’ worth of work done in 1 year. Not a
good idea.
- You’ll work hard, without maximizing your
God-given strengths. This will make you tired.
- You’ll finish developing a program, but it
won’t be sufficiently exemplary, sustainable, and
replicable. Ouch.
- You’ll plan forwards, instead of backwards—meaning, you won’t plan with the end result in mind. Not good.
What do I do? I reflect on a daily and weekly basis. Each day, I reflect as I pray about God’s work. I ask God for guidance. Then I go for about a 15-minute walk. During my walk, I listen for God’s voice. I listen for God to tell me whom He wants me to talk with, what he wants me to write about, and what projects He wants me keep doing, start doing, or stop doing.
In addition to reflecting daily, I reflect weekly for up to 2 hours. I use up to 75 minutes to process ideas, determine progress toward key goals, and identify and schedule tasks for the coming week. I use 30 minutes to meet with my coach. I use up to 15 minutes to review my schedule of tasks in light of my coaching session.
What happens during my coaching session? My coach asks me crucial questions like:
- How are you doing on your goals?
- Are you staying within your goals?
- How’s your life balance?
- How did you equip people this week?
- How can you more effectively equip people?
Imagine if you and everyone on your church staff, tentmaking staff, mission staff, or school staff spent 30 minutes each week in quiet, focused reflection. How would this impact the achievement your mission?
Work smart. Stop working and start reflecting for a minimum of 30 minutes each week. Increase your productivity. Start today.
